i feel like if you have a bad past with someone, a part of it will always linger there, no matter how hard you try to forget or reconcile. im not encouraging that you should hold grudges (i never/rarely ever do), im just saying that some memories are hard to erase.
“Your friends are your release; they’re who you have the most fun with. And yet when the going gets tough, those people turn around and suddenly, they’re not just making you laugh. They’re being this rock and giving you all their advice, even though you’re so much your own person. If you dissect yourself, I guarantee you, your friends are in there. Their influence is incredible. Best friends are what you need most.”—(via raindropsonredroses)